You’ve been through trying to erase the hurt and pain after all,
you don’t ever want to commit mistake and you don’t need to experience heartache
again in your life. But if you don’t take a risk, how can you get out of that
wretched place that full of bitterness? Step out from the dark and embrace a
chance to experience the joys of life.
Having a relationship again has no guarantee that it would
already lead into a serious relationship. Try to ask yourself if you are
already ready to face it head on despite the future trials that you might be
facing.
Now, are you ready to take a risk again? When you get your heart
broken, you will do everything that you can just to fix it and ease your pain
away. You will protect it in order not to be shattered again into pieces. And
you will learn eventually not to entrust it to anyone. You are craving for
companionship but your fear alienates you from making a love connection. If you
want to find the right one for you, be brave and give love another chance.
Make yourself a pressure free. Don’t let other personalities to
dictate you what to do and when you should go into a relationship. After all,
they are not you. You should be the one to decide for yourself because in the
first place, it is your life. Let yourself not to be blinded by fear and rush
to things if you are just scared that you’ll end up alone. Be patient and wait
for the right moment when you are already at peace with your mind and heart because
desperation for love will drive you nowhere that leads you to still end up with
the wrong person.
Try to be confident and independent. Most often, failures make
you grow as a person. Because of this you will become confident and independent
person who is stronger than ever, keeping your relationship going need not to
rely on others. You have your own mind so take charge of it. Never mind if you’re
going to face heartaches as long as you know already in handling with it. Always
remember to love yourself first because to love someone does not mean that you
no longer have a life of your own.
Do you still antagonize your past? Try to erase all the bitterness
in your heart. It is natural to get angry but what is past is past. Your hatred
will only destroy you so make yourself moving on. Make your previous
relationship a lesson and your stepping stone to move forward and meet the
right person for you and you will realize that to love once again is possible.
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